10 Tips for Better Sex Tonight:
Do you really want to do sex tonight? Though the intimacy level with you and your partner is the same even after marriage, the initiative of sex becomes a problem. Are you living in together but asking the question of sex could be a problem. How to tell your partner that this is the right time? How to make the first move? are some questions which are faced by any married person.
If you think initiating sex tonight with your partner can be really difficult, then may be choosing some of these steps could be of help:
1) I Love You:
These three words have lost its importance in a relationship. Tell your partner this and you are sorted for life to become the partners of sex.
2) Romantic Dinners:
What is lacking post marriage is the love or the ‘heat’ part of it. If there is no spark, then the marriage fails to kindle any kind of response. Marriages are long term commitments which you need to promise your partner and sex becomes very important for the same.
3) Romantic Dates:
Thus, romantic dates can be the first step to bring back that love, that lost zeal in the relationship. And as they say the way to a man is through his stomach. For ladies, you can just praise them to your heart’s content.
4) Try New Poses:
We get bored of the same food, if we eat them repeatedly over a time. What then do you expect with sex tonight? If you fail to try new poses or do something re-invigoratingly new or refreshing it is difficult to convince your partner to get to bed.
5) Read Sex-Pert Columns:
Try to read up something new or refer to some good sex-pert books/advices which can as it is help to add the value of sex in one’s life. For having sex tonight, this could be the way out.
6) Why is Your Partner Upset?
Is your partner no more interested in you? Is your partner seeing someone else? What could be the problem which may be keeping away your partner of even initiating the word. Is it his or her personal work life or stress or the pressure put in by colleagues which may be running their mental peace?
7) Advising Sessions:
Before sexual partners, you are life partners. Thus, it is very necessary that you hit the right questions at your partner so that they can become comfortable with you. Do this and you have hit the nail.
8) Use Contraceptives (Do Not Forget):
Many couples face this problem. Though they may be wanting to have sex eagerly, the question of starting a new family is what can irk them. You need to initiate the conversation with your partner about the same. As we all know that following cycles or using contraceptives can have their own chances of making someone pregnant.
9) If for a Child, Be Confident:
As a man, you need to take your partner in confidence that he is okay with controlling it till she feels it right. Or as a woman, you should be able to give the required comfort to your man even if the maternal urge in you is at the highest.
10) Be Mentally Sound:
Sex is meant for pleasure. Be it for you or your partner, decide it in the mind that you want to have sex for yourself and just yourself. Do it well.
These are some tips for having sex tonight and every night.